April 07, 2011

This is Called Maturity

I just listened to an old song.
Have you heard "Everybody's Changing" by Keane?
Yep, I was listening to that song.
Take a look to the lyric
You say you wander your own land
But when I think about it
I don't see how you can
You're aching, you're breaking
And I can see the pain in your eyes
Says everybody's changing
And I don't know why
So little time
Try to understand that I'm
Trying to make a move just to stay in the game
I try to stay awake and remember my name
But everybody's changing
And I don't feel the same
You're gone from here
Soon you will disappear
Fading into beautiful light
'Cause everybody's changing
And I don't feel right
So little time
Try to understand that I'm
Trying to make a move just to stay in the game
I try to stay awake and remember my name
But everybody's changing
And I don't feel the same
So little time
Try to understand that I'm
Trying to make a move just to stay in the game
I try to stay awake and remember my name
But everybody's changing
And I don't feel the same
Oh
Everybody's changing
And I don't feel the same


Then you will ask...What's wrong with the lyric Glo? (if you curious with this article of course)
...
Last night, when the insomnia came to me, I just let myself browsing in front of my computer.
Opened many tabs and sites
interested in 2 different sites.
The first is Paramore's blog (yeah, I always open this site to see the band's news)
I found an article about Hayley Williams (the vocalist of the band).
the article talk about Hayley on the cover of Cosmo (just click here to see the complete article)
I amazed with Hayley on the cover. She looks mature and girly.

However, she was very boyish, with her red hair and headbanging while singing.


By the time, she is changing.

The second sites is Avril's forum (beside Paramore's site I always open this site too)
The member of the forum talked about her new album Goodbye Lullaby.
some said that they were happy to see Avril but some hate (the same case I found when I read the article about Hayley on the cover).
the haters said they don't like Avril's appearance which is so girly. Some stated that the marriage and divorce of Avril and Derrick turns her into that girly things.
As we know,
Avril was boyish, with her guitar stuff, converse, studs hand-bands and tie.


The same with Hayley, she is changing.
I think it is their rights to change themselves as long as they're not naked in public place (if yes, I'll call them crazy, LOL)
In my opinion, the problems bring them to the mature stage
which is reflect on their appearance.
Hayley with the band's problem (2 members of the band choose to leave Paramore)
Avril with her marriage life with Derrick

took Avril's quote to summaries this article
Why should I care what other people think of me? I am who I am. And who I wanna be. 
Being yourself (myself) and enjoy your (my) life no matter what people think is what I called Maturity.


I think I am going mature by so many problems I have in my life, and I don't care about what people think of that, coz this is my life.
how 'bout you reader?



glo

7 comments:

  1. mature itu buat saya = bisa menahan emosi/nafsu + rendah hati + wawasan luas + bertanggungjawab :)
    tiap org kurasa py pendapat yg berbeda2 soal ini, bcoz this is my life and that is ur life.
    have a nice day glo :)

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  2. my favorite song since i was in junior!

    for me, being mature is not only when i'm able to decide what's best for me but also when my decisions turn out with good results :)

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  3. aku ini mature gak ya? hahaha, jd mikir deh :))

    btw aku dulu ngefans bgt sama avril, sampe bela2in nonton konsernya pas dia manggung di jakarta... untungnya tiket gratis, secara wartawan geto loh haha...

    berubah itu menurutku wajar, sejauh gak bertentangan dgn moral dan agama. aku jg suka berubah2... tp klo itu krn bosenan sih...

    ngoceh ga penting bgt sih gue... cabut ah! :))

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  4. @maya : iya, tiap org pny definisi yg berbeda :) klo buat aq sih, ya masalah2 itu yg membentuk jd lbh dewasa...aniwei, have a nice day too May

    @damar : yepp...result is important :) but don't forget with the process right?as long as you do the best to make the best result is enough :)

    @mba Enno (sekarang aq manggilnya mba) : wah emang enak jd wartawan ya...dl jg pas masi kuliah pernah bikin acara sama kompas, asik bgt, bs dpt tempat istimewa pdhl gratis...hohoho

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  5. hmmm... blog yang menarik di baca dan di kunjungi nihh ..

    salam kenal aja dehh ..

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  6. everybody changing.
    hehe. ngingetin aku ke jaman-jaman SMA.
    waktu itu lagi ini udah kaya soundtrack idupku loh glo. hehe

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  7. @rhyfhad : makasi :) berkunjung lagi lain kali ya :) memfollow jg boleh koq :)

    @hans : km SMA? aq malah uda lupa itu lagu pas aq kapan...SMP kali ya? heehehehe......

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